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RE: Presentencing report

I don't know which one of my many posts made it to the "other" site as I NEVER go there. I would imagine it has to do with the thought that some believe Raye could be guilty of murder. If I took a poll she would win hands down over Mike Porter. I am not saying I think Raye Dawn is guilty of murder. I have actually defended her numerous times in our small town. I personally don't know which one killed Kelsey. I do find it strange that Raye Dawn's family has flyers that state Lance was due home on October 12th (which wasn't true) and Raye Dawn was upset about him seeing Kelsey. Then the day before and after she made calls to her attorney and Kelsey's attorney this baby is murdered. The timeline allows for either Raye Dawn or Mike to be guilty of this crime. The day after Kelsey has died Raye Dawn is out visiting and filing EPO's so Kelsey's father and I cannot attend the funeral. Her own cousin testified to that fact in court. Before the funeral Raye Dawn knows Kelsey's death was ruled a homicide. If she knows she did not commit the murder then it would have to be Mike. Does she ban him from the funeral? NO, he is allowed to attend. Not only that, Raye Dawn's cousin and sister stay in the home with him. Why would you do this if you thought this man murdered Kelsey? Did her own family suspect it was Raye Dawn? I can tell you we have been contacted by members of her family and they do believe that. Were they there because they were afraid Mike would tell what really happened? I don't know....it is a question we will never have answered. The biggest question I get is why would you put a two-year-old to nap on your own bed without a pull up? It makes no sense to me either. Another one is if you pop up out of bed and you are running late to pick up one of the children from school what do you do? Do you want Mike to come out to the porch and look at a turtle? A turtle that was on the porch hours ago and was not put in a box? Or do you get in the truck and go so that child does not have to wait?

After the trial the big question is why would
Gayla Smith not report Mike for taping Kelsey's eyes shut? She knew the past history and stated she was "watchin" him. She could have saved that baby's life right then and there. If her daughter was a victim of circumstance she could have saved her from years in prison. Instead she seemed to add years to the sentence. At the same time she made herself look guilty of enabling child abuse or at the very least guilty of failure to report. When Gayla Smith
was asked about Kelsey's weight loss, her reply "she was taller." Okay, just a little common sense here, if you are taller and healthy wouldn't you weigh more or at the very least the same? The medical reports shows Kelsey consistently weighed 24 pounds while in our home. She weighed less after returning to her mother's home.

Another note: Kelsey was enrolled in gymnastics at her father's request. We did not put her in dance because I knew Raye would probably want to do that herself. I spoke to Raye Dawn about it and she was not happy. I asked her to come watch the practice. I told her there were two rooms for observation and I would stay in the other room so she would be more comfortable. She
NEVER showed up to watch her child. Two weeks later, Kelsey mysteriously has two broken legs. Coinsidence...hmmmm!! Kelsey absolutely loved gymnastics. She would be excited all day waiting for practice. You should have heard how she tried to say "gymnastics". She thought she was a big girl and looked adorable in her practice clothes. She was the youngest and smallest and got all of the attention. It was sad when this little piece of enjoyment was taken from her.

Then you are given one last chance to express remorse, the presentencing report. Raye Dawn never states I wish I had done more, I made a terrible mistake, I should have listened, I should have seen the red flags, or Kelsey should never have suffered that way. Instead she states no one cared about what she (Raye Dawn) was going through. What about what Kelsey was going through Raye Dawn? She doesn't say she wants to do public speaking about the signs of child abuse. She wants to speak about not marrying a bad man twice. It still isn't about Kelsey and never was. She wants to get out so she can have supervised visits with her son. Doesn't she want to prove herself as a mother so she can raise her son? Or is it more convenient to let someone else do it? Now that she has been found
guilty of enabling child abuse doesn't that option go away? If she was only allowed supervised visits then why did her boyfriend have a picture of himself and Blaine on his website taken at Crest?

I don't want this to appear as bashing. It is just the facts as I see them. If Raye is innocent of all of the above why didn't she help her child? Why didn't Gayla help Kelsey? Why didn't the many close family members that saw Kelsey on a regular basis help Kelsey? Why didn't they want us at her funeral? Why wouldn't she admit she was blindsided and work with us for justice? Why does she forget Kelsey is the victim? I have yet to hear any of them say they wish they had done more, they were wrong, they were sorry, and they want to make it right by helping others see their mistakes? All they do is point blame. In their eyes we are the guilty ones because
Raye Dawn failed. We know we should have done more. We we were doing everything we knew to do at the time. How would one ever imagine Raye Dawn Smith, the mother of my grandchild, would sit there and watch her child die
? She says Mike Porter fooled her. I think she is the one that fooled everyone. She fooled them into believing she was a mother. Yes, she gave birth to Kelsey, but that does not make her a mother.

I am sure you will see this post on the "other" site. I hope they do read it. One of their family members contacted my daughter recently asking her how we could be so cruel. She recently asked me why we only allow one side of this story to be told. The fact is there is only one side and it is Kelsey's side. Our version never changes, theirs does on a regular basis. It is rarely about Kelsey, only about how the Briggs family failed this baby. Poor Kelsey, she never had a chance in the maternal family. No wonder the pre-sentencing report recommends Raye never have another child in her care. She didn't have Kelsey in her "care".
 
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(It's all about Kathie. There was recently a death in Kathie's family and instead of the banner over the coffin stating "mother" or "daughter" etc, the banner said "sister" for Kathie. What about the child that was in the home? It's been reported the funeral was all about Kathie; Kathie lost Kelsey and now her family member. What about everyone else? That's why it's not surprising that Kathie turns every case and every conversation back to her own purpose.)

 

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RE: Logan Tucker

The tears a mother has as a defendant in a child abuse case are generally not for the child. The tears are for themselves. It was reported Kelsey's mother bursted out in tears and the jury had to be sent their room. Several witnesses stated those tears stopped as if she had a switch as soon the jury door shut. I personally was not in the courtroom at this time, but several people made the same claim including several reporters.

I cannot imagine what it is like to wait so many years for justice. Trials are mentally exhausting for families to endure. You hear things you had never heard before. Pictures of the victim are hard for most to see. In Kelsey's case our DA kept the autopsy pictures away from our eyes.

I had never heard of putting tape on a child's eyes prior to Kelsey's trial. This act is sick and to think in Logan's case the mother did it herself. Then we have Kelsey's case where the mother and maternal grandmother knew about it and did nothing to help her. I cannot tell you how shocked our family was when Gayla Smith made that admission in court. How can you live with yourself knowing you could have saved her life?

Please do keep us posted on this trial.

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RE: Logan Tucker

I have to wonder how many mothers Oklahoma houses in prison for murdering or allowing murder of their children. Their children are dead and they get to sit in prison living with their sins. How simple would it have been to simply place their child with a loving family and walk away? If they did not want to care for them they should have found someone that would. Murder is not the answer. Allowing murder is not the answer. How many of their family members are now paying for their crimes? This is an epidemic and it needs to stop.

Rest in peace, Logan. This has been a long time coming. Think what these children could have done with their lives if they had been given a chance.

 

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RE: The Media

    Britten Follett is planning a story tonight on Fox at 9:00.

As most of you already know we are under a gag order. I cannot answer most of the questions that have been presented to me. The fact is there are things we still do not know in this case. We are pleased with the amended charge and hope it will lead to more answers and possibly the truth.

You learn a lot about how the justice system works when you are in our shoes and I would not wish this on anyone. You watch murder shows with a new insight into what they are doing. You learn to keep secrets like never before. You search your brain over and over to remember things that were said in the past that now have new meaning. You are able to ignore comments from those that think they know more. Then you are able to laugh along the way when people are critical over things you do when they have no idea what it is like to be us. You learn to do what feels right, to make decisions based on personal reasons and not public perception, you learn to live with a new life that you never asked for.

On a positive note....you learn most people are very supportive and kind hearted. You have friends that you would never have met and will always treasure. You learn a new appreciation for the little things in life. You know God will lead you along the way and keep you strong so you can deal with this on a daily basis now and forever.

 

(The above was posted 3-17-2007 - Kathie was supposedly under the gag order and still maintained the forum and posted articles that were all based on the Briggs' version of events.)

 

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    Finally, a Grandmother that cares enough about a baby to protect him over her granddaughter. This is the natural thing to do opposed to what others have done that cost an innocent life.

 

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Most of the high profile news shows have been contacted. We encourage anyone to send this story to anyone you feel would take an interest. A magazine would be a great place to get some interest started. Please keep us posted on your progress. We have several members that continue to work on this.

 

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RE: 2yr. old's death becomes part of judicial campaign

I wonder if our District Attorney does not get a conviction if this will be an issue in his next election? I wonder if Logan Tucker's case will be an issue in Woodward if that case is not handled properly? I know David Prater is using cases against Wes Lane in his campaign. Using someone's past cases in a campaign is not out of the ordinary during a campaign. It brings public awareness to the candidates performance on the job. Negative campaigning is spreading flyers around town that have nothing to do with the campaign. Yes, this is what the Key supporters have been doing. Negative campaigning is having others sign their names to letters that have been written for them.

Judge Craig Key has called the paternal grandmother's of a dead child some choice names and we have the tape. Doesn't sound like the type of thing a fine Christian man would do, does it? If Sheila Kirk really wanted a nasty campaign I can assure you she has the ammunition. She may get up on November 8th and wish she had, but I really don't think so. Win, Lose, or Draw she will be proud of what she has done in her efforts to bring ethics back to the courthouse.

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RE: Another child abused in Shawnee

We have a mother charged with Neglect and Enabling Child Abuse and her child is dead after nine months of warning and she was released on a $2,500 bond.

Then we have a couple facing the same exact charges and the little girl is not dead and their bond is set at $250,000.

Am I the only one who finds this wrong?

 

4-17-2006 Kathie lied in court. She perjured herself. Why wasn't she charged?

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My opinion is if she was lying in court when she testified, she should also be charged with perjury. When she stated this to me on the day I picked Kelsey up from her daycare with a court order she tried to blame Lance. I told her at that time if she suspected abuse on Kelsey, I didn't care if she did think it was Lance she should have by law reported it.
This same worker is now soliciting donations from family and friends of cash or things to sell on ebay to help with Raye and Gayla's expenses.
I think her testimony changes depending on the situation. One thing she never changes is her belief that we caused all of these problems by getting DHS involved.
If only she and all others involved with Kelsey had fought this hard for her she would still be alive. At least they can still ask God for forgiveness for failing that precious child.

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This was posted 11/27/2007 after it was made public that Kathie took her kids to the DA and said, "If you don't take them, I'll kill them." Then it took her two years to get them back.

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Choices

How many mothers and their significant others are in prison for making bad choices? Since Kelsey's death I am more aware of child abuse and it seems to be growing into a major epidemic. What can we do to make these parents realize they have choices? If they cannot properly care for their children they need to ask for help. They can either find a family member to step in and help or take them to DHS and ask for help. Many people are willing to step in and help out a child and ask nothing in return. A simple choice could save a child's life and keep more so called parents out of prison. Do they honestly think they will get by with this?

We have safe havens for newborn babies. Mothers can drop their newborns off to a designated place with no questions asked. Maybe we need a program where older children can also be dropped off. Most of these children have other family members that would love and protect these children. The problem is many of these parents use their child as a tool against the other family and the child is the one who pays.

I always refer back to Kelsey's case. How much pain could both families have avoided if a different choice had been made? It was more important to hurt our family and Kelsey's Daddy than it was to keep her safe. It appeared to be a big game of keep away and that game turned into murder. No one won this game, Kelsey is dead, her mother and stepfather are in prison, her Daddy still struggles, and the other family members are left to pick up the pieces. All of this could have been prevented by making a choice. A choice to make Kelsey the priority and keep her safe. Mothers need to swallow their pride and ask for help. In the long run their children will respect them for making the tough choice.

Do these people sit in prison and continue to blame everyone but themselves for their actions? Or do they realize how much simpler it would have been to make their child a priority? Do they really think they will get away with beating a child? I realize some do, but it seems the abuse is getting worse and ends with death more often. I can't begin to imagine the thoughts these monsters have. It is all so evil and sick.
 

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Again, it's all about the fame and attention for Kathie.

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Daily Oklahoman

The first edition of a series of articles on Kelsey's life has started today. She is leading the way to make child abuse an issue that should not go away or be ignored. I cannot tell you how hard it is to walk past the news stand and see your grandchild's picture on the front with the word murder connected to it. Yet, I am pleased to know Kelsey's story has gained the attention of so many willing to listen and help make changes.
Now, I must also say I will be the first to make fun of the goofy looking picture of myself. No, I will be the second, my dear sweet husband beat me to it. Yes, I gave it to them, knowing it was one of the best of the bad. What can I say, photogenic I am not!
 

 

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Kathie,

Having seen you interviewed on the news, there is no way anyone can speak of how you look in a picture. Everything I have seen and read that has come from you has been so well put and so wonderful and so truthful. If I had to face this myself, I would only hope to have half of what it that you have. It's a presence that is hard to describe.
I know you read others blogs and respond. Today Pam and Terry were here and Pam and I spent hours infront of this computer reading blogs. I can't say how impressed I am by you. For the four short years I have known you I have been impressed. Kelsey could not have a better spokesman than what she has in you. There are others out that fighting for her and they impress me to. But you stand out!!!.

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Kathie:
I think that's a CUTE picture! It shows you, I guess, in happier times. When you could smile and be a little more carefree. I was upset that you had to sit and justify on the other website all the things that you have done in your life, and even the things with Kelsey.
All of us that know the real truth in this situation know that the Briggs and Sigmans are the only ones that truly fought for Kelsey. Anything that you did was to benefit no one but Kelsey. And I can say, working at OUHSC for a long time, that the doctors there are some of the best in the country and I would TOTALLY trust their judgement with my children. I know why you had to say the things you did today, and I know that you or your family have nothing to hide, but its still irritating that people are pulling at straws to cover up the things they have done. Thats ok, because the truth will prevail, and God will deal with the person responsible for Kelsey's death, and I believe those that did nothing to help her. It is TERRIBLY hard to see little Kelsey's face all over the news, newspapers, and even on here, but it gives us strength to remember who and what we're fighting for, and keep it up! I say prayers for you and your family every night. Bless you!


God bless you and justice for Kelsey!
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I thought the same thing when reading it. How can you say DHS had no part in Kelsey's tragedy? They knew her health was declining. They were contacted many times by more than one person. We have all the documentation to prove it. I know that this editorial is only someone's opinion, but unless you have all the facts you need to be careful what you put in print. There are still many things that have not come out in this case. Even if you have read the DHS reports you would not have all the info since some of it was conveniently omited. The Oklahoman should not have read the DHS reports according to the court ruling so they would not have near all the facts in this case.

I do appreciate the articles about Kelsey. It helps to keep her story around so more and more changes can be made to help others.

 

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New newscast

Channel 4 will now be airing a newscast on their UPN station. It is known as channel 43, but for those of you with Cox cable it is channel 16. For us in the Shawnee area with Charter cable it is channel 8. Tonight was their debut with Cherokee Ballard as the anchor. The news cast will air nightly at 9:00. Cherokee will still be doing the 10:00 news on Channel 4 as she has been doing in the past. Most of her big stories will be on at 10:00 and occasionally she will do a segment of the story at 9:00.

 

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When is Cherokee or anyone else for that matter going to report on the BIGGEST part of Key story--the fact that Key made his mind up before hearing evidence?

 

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I believe Cherokee will be doing a story tonight on Kelsey and it will touch on the deposition.

I would recommend that some of you also contact Nick Winkler at Fox. Fox has been a great asset to getting Kelsey's tragedy out and we know Nick has been an advocate for Kelsey.

I have been waiting for months to be able to tell people about the deposition. Now that the story has broken, I feel it needs to be talked about. Making a decision before a court hearing is a major issue. It is not only a big issue in the case itself, but in the campaign. I might add the two girls that gave the depositions are not the only ones who have confirmed this action by Judge Key.

 


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I have blind faith in Cherokee and Nick Winkler to report the truth. I know that they both will get the message that Judge Key placed Kelsey back into a home he knew she was going to be abused. He simply did not care about her. I believe and it’s my right in this country to believe what ever I want to that an offer was made to Judge Key he couldn’t refuse. I don’t think this man would refuse any offer.
Nick Winkler tried to ask Judge Key why and he would not answer. Judge Craig Key knows the law and protects himself with the same system he abuses while we pay him to hand out death sentences to toddlers.
JUDGE CRAIG KEY WILL BE EXPOSED. HE SHOULD BE DISROBED AND BOOKED FOR ACCESSORY TO MURDER.
 

 

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(I wonder what Donna thinks now...)

Kb's supporter said this about her picture - "It shows you, I guess, in happier times. When you could smile and be a little more carefree." This was in January, 2006, the same month that Kathie was emailing, meeting with, and joking with Mike Porter.

Kelsey's Purpose members have made several political threats.

Hopefullymore10 is Pattsi Thornbrue - Her foster care home was shut down when she investigated a parent of one of the children she was fostering. That's against the rules. Now she's pushing for a class action law suit along with Kathie to "take down DHS." With some research, you'll see that after a successful class action, they can then sue for damages...all about the money!

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RE: ELECTION TIME MATTERS!

Can we start posting when town meetings are going to be held and when there are going to be meetings where the people running for office are speaking? This is how we are going to make a difference. We have to let these officials know that we aren't going to be quiet any longer and that we want action. They need to do something to change things or get out!!! If enough of us pull together we can let these people know that WE control their future.


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RE: ELECTION TIME MATTERS!

I started a thread for this very thing. It is called....Campaign issues and promises. I stuck it at the top of the forum so we can continue to use it during the campaign season.

 


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Many many people were aware of this case. Judge Key saw the pictures of Kelsey's body from the first report. The Meeker Police took pictures themselves and determined it was not abuse. Yes, that is right they determined 29 bruises all over her body and multiple abrasions were accidental and sent her back to her mother. As a matter of fact they told us if we did not give her back that day we would have charges filed against us. That is why we had to get a court order to get her protection. We contacted DHS and they did not intervene prior to our court action. Meeker Police had told them Kelsey was in protective custody with us and they thought it was under control for the weekend. When we contacted them and told them we had to return her they still did not go immediately to check her out. I might add even after a formal complaint the town of Meeker still keeps these same police officers on payroll and never acknowledged our concerns. How many more children are being abused in Meeker that they are ignoring? Who knows. I have heard of another case where a neighbor to a girl in Meeker not only reported suspicions of abuse but recorded the mother through her apartment walls. She took those recordings to our police chief and nothing happened. It personally concerns me that this has not been addressed.

The doctor in OKC should have called the Oklahoma County DHS on the spot and taken Kelsey into custody. That did not occur to me until much later. That might have made a difference, but then again they could have turned her over to Lincoln County and the same results would have occurred.

Once Kelsey was returned to her mother we had no visitation. Our attorney asked him about it in court and he said "no". The mother was not going to allow a visit on her own. She always felt this was my fault because I reported the abuse. She never felt I was only concerned for Kelsey's safety.

On August 27th, we were allowed one more visit until Kelsey's pediatrician put a stop to it. This was to be the last visit we had with Kelsey. On that day we were not only shocked at her condition, but we knew she was going to die if someone did not help her. We expressed those exact words to CASA and DHS. They did not act on her behalf and she is dead. They would state she needed more tests to prove it was not a medical condition. Yet, the last test they needed was scheduled two months later. She did not live long enough for the test. Most doctors would have gotten that test asap under the condition Kelsey was in. It should not have been put off.

You can see I am bitter with many people who could have and should have helped Kelsey. We did everything we knew to do. My last hope was waiting for her Daddy to return from Iraq so he could fight for her. Then again, he was also listed as a perpetrator in the petition even though he was not here. Plus we would have been in front of the same Judge that sent her home against recommendations. Kelsey never stood a chance against the very system that should have protected her. Even though DHS did not recommend her to go home, they did nothing to move her once they were aware of the decline in her condition. They still had the power to save her. The fact is they have to much power and no accountability when they mess up.
The same workers in Kelsey's case are still employed by our state and we are paying their salaries.

 

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(I'd like to point out that Kathie's name is on the list for being sued for not paying her state taxes and her name was in the paper recently for not paying her real estate taxes. So who is paying their salary? Not Kathie.)

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So in other words, you are not ONLY blaming Judge Key. There are so many peole who did ABSOLUTELY nothing! Where is that case worker now? And is the Doctor still practicing?!!!!!! These people are totally crazy! And for the mother to leave the hospital and NOT get that baby checked, to me, those actions speak louder than words. Where was Kelseys maternal grandma? Could she not insist to her daughter to take her to the hospital? Even a different hospital. I have been to Meeker on one occassion not to long ago. The beautiful signs were all over. Yet as my Nephew and teammates sat on the bench taking turns batting, the Meeker fans were hollering such bad things to these children (little league) many were crying. I shouldn't say all fans but a few in particular. I remember wondering as I sat there listening if these people knew about Kelsey and covered it up, if they were some of the ones who did nothing.. What do you do when you are in panic mode? Do you take the child and run? I guess in some ways that doesn't help either. But what can be done? Is that what your trying to change? Options? God knows it needs to be. Someone to help us be heard.WHO is that? Is that you Kathy? If it is, you have my prayers. All of you do.

 

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As you know Meeker is a very small town and everyone knows everyone. One of the police officers that testified stated he did not know these families. He stated this under oath, when in fact he went to high school with the maternal grandmother, he lived next door to the maternal great grandmother and his daughter went to school with both of Kelsey's parents and was a cheerleader with my daughter. I don't know why Kelsey was not a priority to him, he has a beautiful granddaughter not much older than Kelsey that he adores. If only he would have cared as much for someone elses grandchild. His wife even refused to cut my grandson's hair when she heard I had complained. One of my complaints was that his wife was discussing a juvenile case to her customers and I thought that was unethical. She had cut my grandson's hair his entire life and sent them out the door. I had always thought they were good decent people and do not want to imply they are not. The other officer that testified stated he had previously let the mother go on a DUI charge because she was almost home. People do make mistakes in their judgements, but we have not seen any remorse from this department or the Town Board. I have also been told that at least one of our Town Board members wrote a letter to the Judge on the mother's behalf. As a matter of fact we have been told the officers still speak unfavorably towards us and feel they did a good job. My recomendation would be to get all of the facts on a case before you start tampering with the best interest of a child. People are not always the same once they go home and close the doors. I honestly don't know if these people have remorse in their hearts, I just know they have not expressed them to our family. That could go a long way in the healing process when dealing with what went wrong.

I don't know what happened at your little league game, but I can tell you most of the citizens of Meeker are good decent people. I apologize for their actions in front of your children. I think we are all guilty of spouting off at these games. They seem so much more important than they really are at the time.

The doctor in OKC that did not call DHS did not send Kelsey home with her mother. I was the one who took her to this appointment to have her growth plates checked. This had been recommended to me by the mother's cousin who worked for a foot doctor. She thought it was unusual for a small child to have two broken legs. The doctor in Shawnee had stated it was accidental and I believed that diagnosis and would not have thought to get a second oppinion. Most people cannot wrap their thought process around the fact that someone would break a child's legs. Once this was brought to my attention I realized there could be a serious medical problem. The mother was going to take her to this appointment, but due to a funeral I took her.

No, Judge Key is not the only one I blame. In the end there were only two people in the house the day Kelsey died. Had other people done their job Kelsey would not have been in that house with them and would still be alive.
You do not have to physically kill a child to have had a hand in their death.

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i would love to put my 2 cents in about the people involved in Kelsey's case, but they are not as vaulable as what Kathie has said.  every person that had a hand in Kelsey's death needs to admit it and correct it.  
i personally feel responsible for changing the channel the first few times i saw her on the news.  seeing her made me feel horrible.  now, i know i will never be able to make it up to the Briggs, Sigmans, or most of all Kelsey, but i'm going to try my hardest to help seek the justice she deserves. in my opinion, everyone needs to do that, including those who could have helped her but refused to do so.

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That's the way things work in our little town.  One person that is very well connected to the Meeker police department went to court the day Raye Dawn got Kelsey back and testified on Raye Dawn's behalf. It really makes me sick the way things work here. I really believe it's all about who you know in this town.


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Kathie,
This is minor compared to all of the other componets in this case but there is a point I am trying to make.
You mentioned that the wife of the police officer, the hairdresser, was discussing the case to her customers in the shop. You complained and nothing was done about it. DHS threatened to file felony criminal charges against us because our attorney had hired a PI. They said we broke confidentiality. They thought they had "got us" as the ADA said. They were mad at us and wanted to retaliate. In your case they were mad at you and wouldn't look at the complaint. This goes back to my constant and neverending complaint. ACCOUNTABILITY!!! The Good Ole Boy System. What do we do about it? These people don't even follow their own policies and rules. Only if they choose to. There is no one we can go to because no one holds any of these people accountable. The Good Ole Boy System is part of what killed Kelsey. It is alive in Lincoln Co. It is alive in Sequoyah Co. It is alive in Logan Co. It is alive in Hobart, whatever county that is. It is alive all across the state, and it is putting children in danger and killing them. What do we do to stop the Good Ole Boy System??? Accountability???? How do we get it?


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Kathie is talking about a parade to bring focus to child abuse and is posting it in the election time matters i.e.. political threats thread.

When Raye Dawn was taking the classes, guess who had custody of Kelsey? - Kathie!

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Let me first say the parade will be a float. It will not be a protest of any kind, we will not be targeting anyone. Kelseyspurpose is to bring child abuse awareness. It started out as a family site to honor Kelsey and has grown beyond all expectations.

We want people to realize it is a crime to abuse a child and it should be reported. Another thing we do is support others who feel lost within the system. We do not have all the answers, but collectively we try to help everyone who contacts us. Sometimes that help is by listening and supporting them and sometimes we actually have agencies we can refer them to. We are new at this, I don't think any of us expected this to take control of our lives like this. We have often stated we are the voices of the children and that is why somedays
we are extremely angry at those who failed a child. Comments made on here are individual opinions and that is how we learn and often it helps just to vent. What happened to Kelsey and some other children is down right wrong. We know changes need to be made. We need new laws, and we need to examine laws presently on the books that should be enforced. We have elected officials that should be replaced. We must look at them on an individual basis to see which ones have failed at their jobs.

I know Judge Key has done some good things in his career. It is sad that one FATAL mistake can sometimes over shadow that. Yes, Kelsey's mother did complete the classes required of her. Yet, during the course of these classes Kelsey was abused again. Just because someone takes a class does not mean they automatically deserve their child back. Judge Key stated in that court room that he could not determine who broke Kelsey's legs. That means one of the two people he sent her to live with could have been the perpetrator and yet she was sent there anyway. Four months later she was dead. Had he put her in another home she might still be here today and this site would not be here. I do believe he had options. I personally do not intend to give this man my vote again. I feel validated for my feelings. Until you have actually buried a child or a grandchild you could not possibly imagine the feeling. Then knowing it could have and should have been prevented brings out your anger. I hope we have an opponent worthy of this office for me to offer my support to. I do not expect everyone on this site to agree with me or to vote the same as I do. If someone has information they want to share about a candidate they are welcome to do so.

As far as donations go, we would not want anyone to give to this organization that is not totally comfortable with our efforts. I hope you will find a place that you fully support and donate to them. Possibly a candidate that you believe deserves your support. We use our funds to attend rallies and to purchase materials to spread Kelsey's story in hopes of bringing more awareness to child abuse.

I hope you will continue to post and if you have questions about our case feel free to ask. It is a very complicated story. I lived it and still cannot believe it is true. I wish it was not.

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We went to court today and the Judge dismissed our case. We were shocked!!!

We have a confirmed retaliation against the dept. A child was placed in the home of a convicted violent crime offender who has supervised visits with his other children because they were "mad" at us and the Judge closes the case.

WE HAVE PROOF. 56 Pages of it. We have read this report that the dept. has fought so hard to keep from us and after reading it we know why they don't want us to have it.

The Judge didn't even read the report. DHS had entered a motion to dismiss and the Judge said 2 words. "Motion Sustained". No comments were allowed, no arguments were allowed, no explanation was given. It took a whole 5 seconds.
There is something VERY wrong going on here.

Our fosterhome was closed after 24 years of service with not 1 mark against us. We stood up to the dept. concerning decisions they were making about a fosterchld and they retaliated. These workers were not reprimanded. They still hold their positions. They are still making decisions concerning childrens lives and it has been proven that they did not have the childs best interest at heart when doing what they did.

They keep children in fosterhomes where they know they are being abused and that there are problems and they close our home! They allow children to be sexually assaulted by their fosterparents.  How is that possible?

I have lost all faith in the judicial system. There is no justice.

So now we all sit and wait, watching, hoping this child is not the next victim of the dept.

Children have never been nor ever will be hurt in our home but they will continue to be abused by the very system set up to protect them. We will not be given the opportunity to provide a child with a safe, happy, and loving home BUT the dept. will continue to be given the opportunity to abuse Oklahoma children.





 


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What is this Judge's name? As we all know it is NOT impossible to remove a Judge from the bench. If this Judge does not take the time to thoroughly review this case there is a major problem. If this Judge does not want to give reasons why this decision was made it tells me power has gotten to them....or something else has. No, I am not accusing this Judge of misconduct on the bench, but I do question this decision and the way it was delivered.

Sounds like we need a MAJOR campaign investigating this Judge. When will he/she be up for re-election?


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This was in district court.
Judge Vicki Robertson.
I was told she was very political.


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wow Pattsi, I'm so sorry, but unfortunately NOT suprised. These officials need to quit covering each others asses and start going against the grain and doing what is right, which is actually their JOB and that is to do what is in the BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILDREN! How many more children have to be murdered, tortured and maimed before they wake up and DO THE RIGHT THING IN THESE CASES? I'm disgusted with the system. America should be ashamed for the treatment of our children...good ol' Oklahoma right along with them.

 


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I am so sorry...but never loose faith, God works in ways we don't always understand, and you never know what's right around the corner!! Loose faith in the system all you want, as it has done nothing but give us all millions of reasons to do just that, but God has a plan, and things will work out! We are all here, standing right behind you, as well as beside you and I know I speak for everyone when I say if you need help in ANY way, all you have to do is ask!!
On a side note,
I am sick to death of these judges just throwing their power around and not taking anything seriously!! How hard would it be for them to take 20 minutes to gather all the information and make an INFORMED DECISION?!?! I think Kathie and Teri should run! LOL  Heck, forget running for seats on the bench...let's nominate them for President and Vice President!! They'd get it done!! I know they have no experience
running a country...but it seems to me like we could say the same for who's running the show right now!!
Toungue Uh-Oh, all of our Republican members are going to have a field day with me!! Go easy on me guys! lol


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Pattsi, I am really sorry. This doesn’t make sense whatsoever!!!  One judge wasn’t reelected for his actions and all of you know who I am speaking of…and we can see that this judge isn’t reelected also!  This is hogwash that a judge wouldn’t even listen to you.   This judge sounds very bias she made her decision without just grounds or sufficient information and in the court of law this is a bad mistake.
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The crazy thing about this is the report was released by error. It has been read and people DO know the shocking and revealing facts. If this Judge read the report and cared about this child she would not have ruled this way. If she read the report and is connected to DHS or the DA in Logan County then she needs to be removed from the bench before another child dies. If she did not read the report and this is her ruling she either lacks the skills she needs to be an effective Judge or she is doing someone else's work......hmmm!

DHS may think they have won and yes, they won another round, but the battle continues. This report contains information the state of Oklahoma needs to know. You cannot release a report and then pretend it doesn't exist just because that is how you want it.

Once before I asked the question....Does anyone know the difference between DHS and the Mafia? That may sound like a joke, but more and more I believe they are worse than these hired guns because they target children.

 


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Can this story go to the media again??? Surely the naughty judge can be reprimanded?????

 


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Remember from the abuse page, the picture she's showing is showing injuries from their auto accident where they were hit by a drunk driver and their vehicle was totaled. Kathie leaves out those details. Whenever words are bolded in posts, that's Kathie's doing. I'm just highlighting.

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    Kelsey's case was marked HIGH PRIORITY. If this is what happens when you are high priority what kind of care do the others get? Our First Lady, Kim Henry, called Howard Hendrick personally and asked him to check on Kelsey. This is how he acknowledged her request. He turned it over to someone else and did not take care of the situation. He snubbed his nose at her request because he can and no one is doing anything about it. If the Governor's wife and the cousin to Kelsey cannot save a child the other children in this state don't have a chance under Howard Hendricks eye.

Our County Director, Debra Winn, knew this was a HIGH PROFILE case and she allowed her workers to make the decisions. It was her job as their supervisor to make sure Kelsey was safe. I have emails from her stating she noticed Kelsey's decline, yet she did nothing. She alone could have saved a child's life and she is still in charge of other children. How safe are they?

Look at Kelsey's face. Look at the other pictures of her? How could any HUMAN not notice a problem? These people have degrees? In what?

 


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The following post is interesting because any post with an opposing view doesn't last one minute on KP. Remember, the timeline, evidence, and an eyewitness account that I've heard all place Kelsey's legs being broken at Kathie's home. When DHS realized that and Kathie took Kelsey to another doctor and told him Kelsey was being abused so he would make note of it, DHS took Kelsey from Kathie's home.

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First of all I would not want to ban someone for bringing an opposing view or new light to this situation.

Obviously I know more than I am willing to spell out on this site. There is a civil case pending.

The attorney you mention was the attorney for the mother.
The doctor that favored the mother and stated there was no abuse was the attorney's sister. The OU specialist did not recommend Kelsey go home.
The police officer went to high school with the maternal grandmother. The other police officer testified in court he had previously let the mother off of a DUI and let her continue home. He was and is a personal friend of hers.
The CASA worker never completed her investigation, she was influenced by her own sister, a co-worker of the mother.

The one DHS worker who stated she would like to phase Kelsey into Raye Dawn's home did not say if she wanted to do that next week or next year. We will never know what the plan was. She was also called to testify on the mothers behalf. She was not called by the state. The two that did testify, did not state in court for the Judge to hear that they did not recommend Kelsey go home.

DHS might not have directly put Kelsey back, but if they did not agree with the decision they could have taken measures to remove her once they saw a problem. I do have documentation that they knew there were problems and they had four months to make this right. The Lincoln County workers in this case were not your typical workers, they befriended the family and did not remain objective.

After Kelsey's legs were broken one of them stated "we should send her back home with the mother and see what else happens to her". Is that what you are taught in child placement classes?
Another worker stated in March that she felt the mother's visitation should go back to supervised, yet she did not act on this. Why would they take these chances? DHS could have taken different actions that could have saved a life. They were not there to make friends, but to put the childs best interest first. They failed and so did many others.

 

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Mrs. Briggs,

I mean no disrespect to you or your family. I believe you know I support this fight for Justice for Kelsey. And I have stated before that if the facts show the DHS workers to be negligent, then so be it.

I am opposed to anyone trying to lay responsibility on something as general as DHS without knowing the facts. I know that you have more information than you can publicly acknowledge, nor do I fault you for keeping this information to yourself. I am sure you are aware that the only DHS workers who will have the same amount or quality of information about this case were those directly involved.

However, I am also certain that you are aware there are those in this world who will attack an institution given any opportunity or evidence there was some wrongdoing or mistakes made. And these attacks are not primarily based on the evidence about the case in question, but on personal opinion from interaction with that institution.

I will probably write opinions here which will engender anger or ridicule, but they will be honest personal opinions based on what I know of the Child Welfare system. I will stay true to my ideals while supporting Justice for Kelsey. I only ask that others here try to see all sides of the conflict before making assumptions about the ineffectiveness or ineptitude of DHS.

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First, on a child that size with Mike's huge hands chest compressions could have definitely done damage to her little body. Second, the statement she makes about Raye Dawn leaving Kelsey there for Mike to find is exactly the statement Michelle Reeves, the juror who slept during the trial, made when she was interviewed after the trial. She's also the one who joined KP two days before the trial was over and after the trial expressed her wishes for Raye Dawn to be beaten in prison.

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Absolutely not. The chest is not near the area where the blunt force took place. You might refer to the autopsy report for further details on the injuries.

We don't know who gave Kelsey the blow that took her life. Mike Porter was not convicted of this crime. There was a twenty to thirty minute window where two people were present.
Most people believe Raye Dawn actually left Kelsey there for Mike to find. According to the flyers her family handed out she believed Lance was coming home the following day, which was never a possibility. According to DHS reports and the CHBS report she was upset about Lance returning. She did not want him to have visitation. She was furious Lance was not required to take a the same classes she did. One could think Raye had motive to permanently keep Kelsey from Lance. Regardless if that was her plan or not, that is what happened. As it has been stated before we don't know who killed Kelsey. They may neither one be convicted of it, but public perception leaves both as suspects. This will remain an unsolved murder.

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Apparently, Richard Smotherman did not take our petition with 3,000 signatures seriously last spring. The petition stated that anyone who knows about the abuse and doesn't do anything to stop it should be charged with the same crime as the abuser. People were lining up to sign the petition. I am still waiting for Raye Dawn to be charged with first degree murder. Anyone else?

 

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Would it be alright to open a thread to mr Smotherman and send him court cases like the ones mentioned here. It would give them more court cases to back up what they intend to do...if its not giving them opportunity to plea bargain or reduce the charges to a lesser count..

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The bill has not been totally funded. That is something we need to lobby for next session. I ask that you contact your Representative now and ask them why they did not fully fund it and when do they expect to? OSBI wanted enough money to hire 10 people for this and was given the budget for 2. I agree with John Walsh and have myself stated that a law that is not enforceable is not a law, it is a suggestion.

 


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It's all about media and attention.

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Most of the high profile news shows have been contacted. We encourage anyone to send this story to anyone you feel would take an interest. A magazine would be a great place to get some interest started. Please keep us posted on your progress. We have several members that continue to work on this.

 


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Remember that there is evidence and a witness supporting the fact that Kelsey's legs were broken at Kathie's home and that Kathie let Kelsey crawl for four days without seeking medical attention. Also, remember where Lance was, not in Iraq!

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April is Child Abuse Awareness Month

Today is the day I have been waiting for. It is the first day of Child Abuse Awareness Month. It is also the first day of two big campaigns for Kelseyspurpose. I will post them separately and here is the first one. Please send this message or compose your own to everyone in your address book and challenge them to do the same. I have actually been saving email addresses for this challenge and plan to go through the phone book or any other literature I can to find more. If you know how you should also add the picture of Kelsey with her casts on. That picture makes a statement all on it's own.

   

 

The Kelsey Briggs Child Abuse Challenge



April is Child Abuse Awareness month. We are challenging each of you to forward this letter to everyone in your address book. Each letter represents a child that could be saved if we bring awareness to more people.

Kelsey Briggs was murdered at the age of 2 after months of documented abuse.
Her father was in Iraq fighting for our country while she was here fighting for her life. She lost that battle, but will not lose the war. Her story can and will save other children. To learn more about Kelsey's tragic life please go to
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I will try to answer your questions. Kelsey was taken to the ER when her father discovered the bruises. The Meeker Police department was called and assistant police chief showed up and took the report and pictures of 29 bruises, multiple abrasions and a broken collarbone. He told us he felt it was abuse and the nurse on duty had seen these types of cases many times and she would be an excellent witness.
It was our weekend to have Kelsey and she was to go home on Sunday at 6:00. We had been advised to keep her and when the mother called and asked where she was to explain what the ER report stated. We did that, she went to the Meeker Police, they called wanting Kelsey. After a discussion with the Sgt. he asked the mother to allow us to keep her one more night and he would interview her in the morning. We felt he should have done the interview right then instead of giving her time to get her story straight. Meeker Police called DHS and told them they had the child in protective custody and it was under control.
The following day he interviewed the mother and also allowed her mother, a former classmate of his, to be present. He also interviewed my son and would not allow me to stay in the room.

They took pictures of Kelsey's room and their findings was she fell out of her bed, landed on a slide, tumbled twice going down a three foot plastic slide, and landed on a hairbrush with out a diaper on. Case closed.
We had to give Kelsey back by 2:00 or have child abduction charges filed on us. We called DHS and explained we were to give Kelsey back and they started their investigation.
Two days later we retained an attorney, took the pictures of Kelsey to Judge Key and he granted emergency guardianship.

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Remember this....our elected officials were more than ready to pass Kelsey's Law before the election. We need to remind them if they do not make the amendments that strengthen it we won't forget.

The politicians are not there forever....they will need to be elected again...OR NOT!

 


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Rumor has it HB1699 has been passed out of the Rules Committee. As far as I know and can tell by the website, that is not the case. Tomorrow some of us are will be there meeting these people in person. For those of you that cannot attend PLEASE keep their phone lines tied up asking for their support. Call as often as you can and ask your co-workers to do the same. Focus on the co-chairs if you don't have time to call all of them.

Sen. Mike Schulz 405-521-5612
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Sen. Cliff Branan 405-521-5543
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Sen. John Ford 405-521-5634
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Sen. Earl Garrison 405-521-5533
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Sen. Joe Sweeden 405-521-5581 sweeden@oksenate.gov

Sen. James Williamson 405-521-5624
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Sen. Jim Wilson 405-521-5574
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Today was very interesting. We had a good group making their way around the Capitol. We had a total of 18 members speaking on behalf of our states children.

We did confirm that HB1699 died in committee. We did not get straight answers as to why this happened. So reading between the lines we know DHS did not want it to pass and they lobbied for its failure. Several of our members spoke to different Senators and will be able to post what they were told. In my research I was told this Bill still has some hope. We need to get it attached to another Bill so it can be passed.

Senator Mike Shultz is one of the co-chairs of the Rules Committee. He told us to our faces two weeks ago he was in full support. It is my understanding he is the one that caused its failure. I am not personally pointing the finger towards him, that was done by his fellow Senators. We met with him again today and he has promised once again to help get it passed. I know longer have faith in that man and do not believe a word he says. He claimed he has "leaders", but would not tell us who they are. We too have leaders and even though I cannot list all of their names I know one of them is Kelsey Briggs.

What can we do now? PLEASE start tomorrow and call his office all day long and let him know we are going to hold him to his promise. I have been told his secretary was not very friendly on the phone. She was not very friendly in person today either so don't let her discourage you. After you call him call the other members of the Rules Committee. Tell them you are disappointed that now that the election is over their concern for our children is over too.

Sen. Mike Schulz 405-521-5612
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Sen. Cliff Branan 405-521-5543
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Sen. John Ford 405-521-5634
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Sen. Earl Garrison 405-521-5533
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Sen. Joe Sweeden 405-521-5581
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Sen. James Williamson 405-521-5624
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Sen. Jim Wilson 405-521-5574
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Don't stop there. Email them all and have your family, friends and co-workers to do the same.

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Yesterday we were told by more than one individual that Senator Mike Shultz was the one that would not let HB1699 be heard. This was a big surprise since he told us in person the prior week he supported it. He denied that he is the one that has tried to kill the Bill and has now vowed to help attach it to another Bill.

He also spoke of politics and that this should not be about party. The fact is politics and party is the big problem. You see, Senator Nancy Riley was a Republican prior to the last election. She changed her party to Democrat and several elected officials are not happy with her for that decision. She has been told by some Republican party members they would do what ever they needed to in order to kill the Bill she is attached to.

Who is really being punished for this game? Is it Senator Nancy Riley or is it the children of our state? Senator Nancy Riley will still go home each night and go on with her life regardless of this Bill and so will the other Senators. The children are the ones that always have to suffer.

They say this stuff shouldn't be about party and I agree. I don't know what party most of these people are because it doesn't matter to me. The sad thing is when you say "party" to a child they think of something happy and fun. When you say "party" in the Capitol you are in for a stand off. They have literally turned this into a dirty word when you are in the very place people are suppose to come together for the people of our state. How sad is this?

 


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In this email threat she included pictures of Kelsey after the car accident. The ones that were posed after according to Kelsey, they took her sucker away.

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I have sent emails to every member of the House and Senate for three days. Beneath the last letter I wrote are the replies I have received. PLEASE keep writing and calling.

Today's email.....

Senator Shultz promised to attach HB1699 to another Bill. Won't you help?
Twice Senator Shultz has looked me in the eye and stated he supports HB1699. Others say he would not let it be heard in the Rules Committee that he co-chairs. I don't know who is speaking the truth. All I know is the laws in our state are not adequate for child protection. You have the power and the duty to make the needed changes one step at a time. Last years law was a great start, but was not enough. We can't wait for the next tragic story or the next election to gain this attention again.

I am not asking for this because it benefits me personally. I am asking for all the children that live in fear as you sit in your office and read this message. YOU are the voices of the silent majority please don't let them down. I never ever expected to have one of my own grandchildren abused and murdered. The next innocent victim could be one of your family members. I can tell you this is not a chance you want to take. I ask that you go to the bottom of this message and look at this child that was failed by many adults including many in the Capitol. Then look into your hearts and do what is right for our children.

Senator Shultz promised he would find a Bill to attach HB1699 to. I would hate to think this would escape him memory until it is to late. Please help him keep his promise.
       

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Kathie,
I couldn’t agree more. I appreciate your very appropriate admonishment to the leaders of our state. I pray that each member of the Legislature will actually take the time to read your thoughtful comments.
Sincerely,
Ryan
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This is very unfortunate.
Rep. Sherrer

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Kathie:
Thank you for your e-mail.  I will put it with the card we received today (with Kelsey’s picture on it) and make sure Senator Laster receives it.  I think of her often, as I am sure many others do that never even knew her.  
Thanks again.
Sharon Veazey
Executive Assistant to Senator Charlie Laster
424-A State Capitol Building
Oklahoma City, OK  73105
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This is the absolute truth, and I am so very sorry that it has happened.  We should be about policy, not politics.  Politics is what gets us to the Capitol.  It should be dropped off at the door.
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Today my email to the Capitol will be letting them know how KP has grown. It will let them know that people in other states and other countries are baffled at the things that go on here. How the very people that can make a difference choose not to.

Please send an email to these people and let them know they are not protecting our children. Those of you in other states and countries you can help us too. Just copy and paste these addresses. Let them know you are a member of Kelseyspurpose and where you are from.

dennisadkins@okhouse.gov, donarmes@okhouse.gov, johnauffet@okhouse.gov, garybanz@okhouse.gov, chrisbenge@okhouse.gov, scott.bighorse@okhouse.gov, lisajbilly@okhouse.gov, gusblackwell@okhouse.gov, davidbraddock@okhouse.gov, neilbrannon@okhouse.gov, mikebrown@okhouse.gov, ed.cannaday@okhouse.gov, johncarey@okhouse.gov, lancecargill@okhouse.gov, wallace.collins@okhouse.gov, anncoody@okhouse.gov, mariancooksey@okhouse.gov, jamescovey@okhouse.gov, dougcox@okhouse.gov, david.dank@okhouse.gov, leedenney@okhouse.gov, david.derby@okhouse.gov, daledewitt@okhouse.gov, joedorman@okhouse.gov, rexduncan@okhouse.gov, jerryellis@okhouse.gov, john.enns@okhouse.gov, george.faught@okhouse.gov, darrellgilbert@okhouse.gov, larryglenn@okhouse.gov, rebeccahamilton@okhouse.gov, terryharrison@okhouse.gov, jwhickman@okhouse.gov, weshilliard@okhouse.gov, chuck.hoskin@okhouse.gov, terryhyman@okhouse.gov, terryingmire@okhouse.gov, scott.inman@okhouse.gov, mikejackson@okhouse.gov, shanejett@okhouse.gov, dennis.johnson@okhouse.gov, robjohnson@okhouse.gov, tadjones@okhouse.gov, fred.jordan@okhouse.gov, charlie.joyner@okhouse.gov, sallykern@okhouse.gov, charles.key@okhouse.gov, kiesel@okhouse.gov, luckylamons@okhouse.gov, guyliebmann@okhouse.gov, allindley@okhouse.gov, ken.luttrell@okhouse.gov, scott.martin@okhouse.gov, stevemartin@okhouse.gov, al.mcaffrey@okhouse.gov, mccarter@okhouse.gov, mark.mccullough@okhouse.gov, jeanniemcdaniel@okhouse.gov, randy.mcdaniel@okhouse.gov, ryanmcmullen@okhouse.gov, skye.mcniel@okhouse.gov, jerrymcpeak@okhouse.gov, kenmiller@okhouse.gov, dannymorgan@okhouse.gov, richardmorrissette@okhouse.gov, jason.murphey@okhouse.gov, billnations@okhouse.gov, ronpeters@okhouse.gov, pampeterson@okhouse.gov, ronpeterson@okhouse.gov, gregpiatt@okhouse.gov, anastasia.pittman@okhouse.gov, eric.proctor@okhouse.gov, rcpruett@okhouse.gov, brian.renegar@okhouse.gov, mikereynolds@okhouse.gov, philrichardson@okhouse.gov, paulroan@okhouse.gov, waderousselot@okhouse.gov, colby.schwartz@okhouse.gov, earl.sears@okhouse.gov, tw.shannon@okhouse.gov, mikeshelton@okhouse.gov, bensherrer@okhouse.gov, jerryshoemake@okhouse.gov, jabarshumate@okhouse.gov, glensmithson@okhouse.gov, krissteele@okhouse.gov, danielsullivan@okhouse.gov, randyterrill@okhouse.gov, mikethompson@okhouse.gov, todd.thomsen@okhouse.gov, suetibbs@okhouse.gov, johntrebilcock@okhouse.gov, daleturner@okhouse.gov, purcywalker@okhouse.gov, weldon.watson@okhouse.gov, paulwesselhoft@okhouse.gov, susanwinchester@okhouse.gov, treborworthen@okhouse.gov, johnwright@okhouse.gov
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Here is Kathie living her dream, being amused, while the Smiths are living a nightmare.

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This is a letter to the editor in our County paper. I think you will all be just as amused as I was.


To The Editor,
Although I do not know him personally, I believe Judge Craig Key is a good man and a highly competent, fair and non-partisan judge. He has accomplished much for our community and worked tirelessly as an advocate for children and families in Lincoln County. He consistently demonstrates thoughtfulness, intelligence and compassion (important attributes in a judge) in his decisions.
Judge Key is not responsible for the murder of my granddaughter Kelsey. Kelsey was two years old before she was jerked from her stable environment and was subsequently passed back and forth between her birth father's family and her mother. We were forced to go to court for everything, even to change Kelsey's name. We named her Kelsey Shel-ton Smith after her grandpa. We were forced to change her name to Smith--Briggs, when Robinson is their actual family birth name.
At the same time, my daughter was still grieving the death of her dad and the subsequent death of her grandpa. She had come so far after surviving a relationship with her first husband and had begun to build a life for herself and Kelsey. Then she met a man she thought would be a good husband, provider, and most importantly a good stepfather to her daughter. By all outward appearances he seemed to fit the bill. Our whole family and others were lured by this wolf in sheep's clothing.
If Kelsey's paternal family members knew so much, then why didn't they call me, my son, or my mom? My mom is the most kindest, loving, and caring person I have ever known, and had she had any suggestion that any acts of harm were being done to Kelsey, I can assure you that she, as well as myself, would have addressed the situation. If my daughter or any of my family had been aware of any
wrongdoing, by anyone, it would not have been left to a Judge's decision. I never received a single call or voice of concern from any of Kelsey's paternal family, ever.
Many people say they want justice. We all want justice. But by hearing half-truths, false accusations, and one-sided distorted propaganda, created for one's personal gain will not bring justice. This is still America, so why not allow the judicial system to work, instead of creating a vigilante posse.
Judge Key did not murder Kelsey. That brutal act was committed by someone else. We all felt that Kelsey being with her mother was the best action. That is what Kelsey wanted - to be with her mommy. Kelsey and Raye Dawn loved each other so much. Raye Dawn was proud of her and cherished the love they shared. No one can take that memory away from her.
I want to send a message out there. When kids are involved, try to work it out. I've been a step parent myself
and it isn't always wonderful, but we made it. I didn't try to be my stepchildren's mom and my mom didn't try to be their grandma. They already had that. We loved them while they lived in our home and did our best. Don't try to control every situation; it doesn't work for families and it doesn't work for kids. Communicate with people, don't go behind their back.
Remember Kelsey was murdered but it was not by Judge Key. He made the best decision he could based on the information he had While we are all against child abuse we can't live in everyone's home every day and we can't take every child away from their parent. Children belong with their parents. Imagine DHS knocking on your door and taking your child away from you.
I miss my beautiful, sweet grand baby every day and I pray that true justice will be served so that she and we, can all finally rest in peace.
Judge Key deserves to be treated fairly, just as he has treated the cit zens of Lincoln County.
Thank You,
Gayla Smith
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Kelsey wasn’t being abused, and her death was an accident?!?!

Could it be possible that the bruises, broken collar bone, and fractured legs could of been an accident?

Being a mother of two and have worked in child care for the past 15 years I know how easy it is for a little one to get hurt playing.

We have all seen the video tapes of Kelsey in action at the day care, playing and so full of life. Nothing was going to slow her down, as she had the world to conquer. Her little friends bouncing around her, in what looked to be like some sort of controlled chaos, bumps and bruises were bound to happen. My girl friends daughter broke her collar bone falling at the age of 5. It happen more often then we would like to think.

Could it be that her Grandmother, terrified that she was going to lose her son while he served in Iraq wanted to do anything to get custody of Kelsey for her own peace of mind?

She reported the bruises and gained custody for a short while. I wonder while Kelsey was in her custody did she attend any type of child care facility and did the bruising stop completely?

Families get so twisted in their own battles between one another they put the childern in the middle. It sounds like Kelsey was a victim in more ways then we think.

We also seen video of Kelsey and Mr. Porter, he looked like a caring parent and she seemed to be content with him, even secure enough to fall asleep on his chest while they both rested on the couch. I would think if he was beating her she wouldn’t want be any where around him.

I read the affidavit Mr. Porter gave, and sad as her death is, could it of been an accident of him trying to save her? In a panic, he presses to hard on her frail little body while trying to perform CPR. Nobody knows how they would react in a situation like that, we’d like to think we’d be able to keep our composure and do what was right, but we don’t know for certain until we're in such a nightmare.

I pray the truth come out and some how her families find the peace within their hearts to carry on.

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Keep in mind that there were several injuries that occurred while Kelsey was in Kathie's home that weren't reported to DHS because Kathie was the one reporting. Kelsey was scratched by Kathie's cat, bit by Kathie's dog, bit by Kathie's other grandchild, and thought to be drugged with cold medicine on two DHS visits to the point that the worker couldn't wake up Kelsey. Kelsey lost weight and hair while living with Kathie and her appearance was referred to as something like a cancer patient. Does that sound like she was safe and happy?

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I normally do not reply to each post, but this one certainly warrants a response. First of all let me make this very clear. I raised four children and it was never a goal of mine to raise another one unless it was necessary. I wanted all of my seven Grandchildren to have good caring parents so I could be the Grandmother. I know children get bumps and bruises, but rarely do they get twenty-nine bruises unless in an accident and rarely do children get many bruises that the mother cannot explain. Kelsey was an active child and she did fall, run and play just like most two year olds. The diference is when she did those things at our home there was rarely a mark. I did worry my son would not return home, who wouldn't, but that did not mean I wanted to take Kelsey from her mother. Kelsey would have gone home on June 6th and Raye Dawn would have started with a clean slate had the legs not been broken. That is a goal we were all working towards. I had already spoken with Raye Dawn about giving up my two weeks summer visitation so Kelsey could go home and get adjusted with her new family. I already had been awarded Lance's standard visitation while he was gone and was grateful for that. Had the bruises and broken bones stopped after January and after the mother completed her service program with DHS, Kelsey could have had a normal life with her mother. You stated she would not have been sleeping on Mike's chest if she was scared of him, how do you know that? Children just want to be loved and if you show them affection after scolding them they usually respond. You sound as if you are a friend of the Porter's or the Smith's to have made some of these remarks against me, and if those are your views I am happy you had a place to share them. However: before you assume you know what my intentions were please check your facts. My goal was always to put Kelsey's best interest first. If that meant she should live with another family member to keep her safe, that was okay. She was safe and happy in our care that did not happen while living in the same house as Mike and Raye Dawn. The bruises on Kelsey did not come from CPR, there are many facts that have not been released and until they are the general public will have questions. I feel enough has been released to determine this was not an accident and it was not a seizure as some would like to believe. I hope you will follow along as new facts are revealed and then maybe you will understand why we had no choice when fighting for Kelsey. I only wish all of her family members would have fought as hard as we did for Kelsey and maybe she would be alive today. We are devastated by this tragedy, but we do know that this family did all we knew to do within the law and not everyone can say that.

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Within one week children are taken from the home for major neglect, returned without a show cause hearing, never seeing a Judge, and one of them dies suspiciously. What next?

No, George we do not think thsese children fell through the cracks. There are no cracks in Oklahoma's DHS system, just big giant black holes where the questions go in and the answers never come out. Why is that? What do we have to do to reform this agency? Wait for dozens more children die? Honestly, how can DHS continue to get by with NEGLECT? Parents get charged or should for allowing children to be abused or neglected, but our agencies designed to protect them gets by with neglectful acts continually.

Where is our Governor? Isn't he basically the HEAD of DHS? Why doesn't he clean house and show Mr. Hendrick if we don't see improvement we won't see him either?

 

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The Judge in Kelsey's case was removed from the bench at the last election. He continues to stand by his decision even knowing a child is dead. He has written a book so he can profit from Kelsey's story. The problem is the book is full of numerous inaccurate statements. It is poorly written and appears to be thrown together just to get the money rolling in. He uses this as an attempt to gain sympathy for himself.

A simple admission of making a mistake would have gone a long way with our family. Instead he tries to blame us for fighting for Kelsey.
He refers to this as a custody fight instead of what it actually was, a fight to keep her safe.

 


Yesterday 12:32 PM

 

Remember that Kathie admitted to Mike Porter in their emails that they were fighting over Kelsey.

Kathie said to Mike Porter in their emails, "It is hard to think a small child as precious as Kelsey died because so many loved her and fought over her."

 

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I awoke this morning and still nothing had changed. There was no television coverage. There was no newspaper coverage. I started this thread because I could not believe the media doesn't think it is important that A JUDGE IS ACCUSED OF MAKING A RULING ABOUT A CHILD BEFORE HEARING EVIDENCE. Even if Kelsey had not died surely there should be outrage that a judge would do such a thing. Are we the only people that care about this conduct?

 

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I think everyone should start calling Mike McCormick at the Shawnee News-Star and ask him why he does not cover this story better than he does. They have really dropped the ball on one of the biggest child abuse cases in this area in years. The number is 405-273-4200. One would think a story about an attorney in his town would make the headlines. I also think the Chandler paper should take an interest.

 

Asking for earmarked donations is illegal. This was the standard for asking for donations in Kelsey's Purpose after the Attorney General told Kathie no more donations without the donations going to an established charity.

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RE: Kelsey Saturday, April 28th 2007

Groups may put a donation box out on Kelsey Saturday. You MUST put Sponsored By Prevent Child Abuse Oklahoma on the box. The money MUST be sent to them and should have Kelsey's name on any checks or money orders so they can track it. Anyone writing a check will get a tax deductible receipt.

In the past some groups have had some envelopes with the address already printed on them. This makes it easier for those wishing to donate later. The address is:
Prevent Child Abuse Oklahoma
437 N.W. 12th Street
OKC, OK 73103

This post was last modified: 03-22-2007 12:56 AM by kjbriggs.

03-22-2007 12:55 AM

 

There were 53 home visits to Raye-Dawn's home from June to Oct.  None of those visits showed any signs of physical abuse.  From June - Sept., Raye-Dawn took Kelsey 50 miles 1 way to the doctor in OKC for check-ups at least 2 times a month (as per of her DHS treatment plan) - By June of 2005 Raye-Dawn completed her treatment plan that involved 4 separate classes (remember it took Kathie 2 years) and received certifications of completion. - Raye-Dawn called and checked in with DHS on an almost DAILY basis.  Raye ALWAYS sought medical treatment for Kelsey - and even requested counseling -


This is the one and only email I've received from Kathie. I was forwarding the hate mail I received to a KP member to share all the nasty and vile things people were saying thanks to Kathie's numerous posts on KP begging people to hate Raye Dawn and pray for Mike Porter.

 

-----Original Message-----
From: KJBRIGGS@aol.com
To: truthaboutkelsey@aol.com
Sent: Tue, Oct 23 10:19 PM
Subject: Re: Hate mail thanks to Kathie and Lance
 

I don't know what you are trying to pull, but this email has nothing do with me. I am not responsible for others comments.

Kathie J. Briggs
 
www.kelseyspurpose.org
 Soldiers Child..please watch.

 
The dead cannot cry out for justice, it is the duty of the living to do it for them.

 

How many others have KP members blackmailed?  Kathie lied and said a subpoena identified Truth Seeker as Judge Key's editor and she and her members have slandered harassed and blackmailed her so that we will stop fighting for Raye Dawn's freedom. How many other innocent people have been drug through the mud for Kathie's agenda to have Raye Dawn and her mother in jail? It's time the public hears the truth! The following email was sent from Starla Knox.

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no subject

From:

Comfort Bears <comfort_bears@hotmail.com>

 

 

Date:

Wed, Apr 02, 2008 5:57 pm

To:

<truthseeker@thetruthaboutkelsey.com>


Jody,
  
 
Seriously, do you really think you can start a website, www.richardsmothermon.com trashing a DA, and seriously think that a subpeona can't be obtained without your knowledge?  Do you really think that was a smart move?  How many of the 12 websites that you owned at the time the subpeona was issued are nothing but www.trashsomebodysites.com ? 
 How do you think the public will feel about you when the information really does go public about your identity with all the evil, filthy lies and twisted facts that you have posted all over the internet about Kelsey's paternal family??  How will that affect your business?  From what I have been able to find out, you have nothing to compensate them if they do sue you.  But...a couple of investigative stories published in the news will have such a lasting impact.  Everytime someone "searches" your name when looking for a writer, editor, or voice over...well guess what?  It will pull up a link to the newstories too.  Personally, I think that would do you greater monetary harm than sueing you.  Legit people won't want to hire an editor or writer with so much negativity and controversy publicly displayed by that person who has continually trashed and disrespected the memory of a murdered, innocent child by posting the evil lies all over the web like you have done about Kelsey Briggs' paternal family.  Did you forget that the Briggs really do have connections?  Do you doubt that the reporter that you all trashed as being a drunk maybe wouldn't jump at the opportunity to do a story on the revealing of truthseekers identity with all the facts that have been twisted and altered by that person? and with the connection to Craig Key?
 And just so you know, I hear the OCCY isn't very happy with the altered reports that have been displayed on your sites.  I also hear there are "important" people that aren't happy that you posted SEALED DHS documents on FKM, or did the Smiths or Craig Key forget to mention to you those records were sealed when they gave them to you?
 You know something to put some thought into...you have stated on FKM that you aren't perfect...how much would someone find out on you to be splasing all over the internet if they decided to take the time to dig into YOUR past? 
 You started this battle, you can end it.  You started the websites, you can end them and all of this can go away.

 

Blackmail and threats aren't worthy of a response. However, all I have to say is that Kathie posted on her forum that a subpoena identified me. This is a lie. Kathie found someone she wants to be me so she posted a lie on her forum and for four days her members trashed this person and posted her picture and home address and practically begged their members to attack her while they slandered her name and her business. Since, this person's business has suffered, she's received hate mail and menacing phone calls, and her vehicle has two bullet holes, a dent, and has recently been keyed. Recently, her home was broken into, but nothing was missing. This is a vehicle that she says she has driven for two years with no damage.

It's this type of hatred, harassment, and threats that put Raye Dawn in prison and has made many other innocent people suffer. It's time to put an end to this madness!

They're lying and saying we've altered reports. Nothing on this site has been altered. They're telling people we attack computers, etc and warn people not to come to our site. They will do anything to cover the truth and promote the lies. It's very sad that they've been allowed to get away with it this long.

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RE: Greetings and hugs from Australia!

There are multiple civil suits still pending on Kelsey's case. They include the state agencies that failed Kelsey along with the individuals in those agencies. The two doctors that misdiagnosed her broken legs and the medical facility that employed them have malpractice suits pending. Once the criminal trials are over there most likely will be others filed. Judges have imunity in our country and in our state. Basically they can make a fatal mistake and knowingly break a law and get by with it. Unless we get a petition and possibly a grand jury investigation he could very well get away with this.

Bottom line....we are not close to being finished. Justice for Kelsey will not be accomplished by sending two people to prison. I made a promise to Kelsey and we are in it for the long haul. Her life was short, but this fight will not be.

I would like to add we could not do as much as we do without the people on this site. I know who each and every person is that has stood by us. Some I have never personally met, but they are lifetime friends. Some may feel they are not able to contribute as much by living out of our area. Just posting a caring is a contribution. Each person that cares about a child and the horrible things that goes on in our world can make a difference.

 

03-20-2007 11:55 PM

This is interesting considering that we've broken no laws and have not posted sealed documents like KP has and we've only stated the truth. Kelsey's Purpose members are all about threats. The grand jury threat is just ridiculous because unlike Kelsey's Purpose we have broken no laws and none of the documents on this site have been altered. They just don't want you to read them.

 

 

This is a post made by Kelsey's Purpose board members (Starla Knox is a frequent poster on this board and one of these could be an alias) where they attacked a child who was a victim of rape and her mother:

 I wonder how White Rabbit aka Hodson would feel if someone made a website about her daughter? If they accused her, the mother, of allowing this rape? If they continued to bash her and her family? If I was the Briggs family I think I would do just that. Instead of being a victim of a horrible crime they would become the victim of vicious lies.

Did Hod report this incident? If so isn't she doing the right thing the same as the Briggs did? Would she want us to accuse her of ignoring this situation the same way she does to the Briggs family?
Darla | 03.23.08 - 1:40 pm | #


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This now makes since. You have a mom feeling guilty for not protecting her daughter from rape. So now she wants to defend other mothers that did not protect their children. Rape is a serious offense and I could see how she could blame herself, but trashing other families is not the answer.

As Darla stated, would she want someone to trash her family? Maybe this is something she should think about before doing it to another one.
Terry | 03.23.08 - 1:51 pm | #

 

(If you click on the link to the emails between the Briggs and Mike Porter, you'll see that only two months after Kelsey's death Kathie was on what she called a bash board and said she was "addicted to it." On that bash board Kathie bashed Raye Dawn, her mother, her grandmother, the rest of Raye Dawn's family, and anyone else she could talk about. She's continues to allow the same to happen on Kelsey's Purpose, which is why these people now feed on negativity.)



 

 

If you have questions about the "charity" work that Kelsey's Purpose is doing, write to the IRS while their charitable status is still pending. Write to IRS, Room 4024, PO Box 2508, Cincinnati, OH 45201 and send them any proof and concerns you have about their agenda, including vicious posts they've posted on their website and others they post on. Feel free to copy the KP posts from this page to include with your complaint.
Make sure you put on the packet that you want it included with their application for charitable status.
This is where they have moved as per their own post:

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RE: For your family to read and know you're not alone

The only forum OPEN for posting on this site is this one. The other open forums are not open for posting by registered members. If you try to post a message in one of those forums, it will not show up on the site. Your post will be sent to the administrators for approval where it will sit until it is manually approved. Unfortunatly, these posts are often not seen for long periods of time by the administrators.

I'm so sorry you thought your posts were being deleted. If anyone here needs help finding their posts or has trouble understanding the message board in general, please PM me. We would also like to encourage you or anyone else looking for an open message board for posting about child abuse/neglect to please visit, www.brokenchild.org
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11-24-2008 01:00 PM

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If you have given money to Kathie's charity, here is the link to the

Consumer Protection Complaint form.

We know Kathie received a $10,000 lump sum donation from one of her supporters. She received $3,000 from a fundraiser that was hosted by bikers for babies. We're sure she's collected thousands more. Lance is on disability and drives a new, customized truck. (He drove back and forth with a police escort following him during Raye's one and only rally in June, 2007)

We're interested in where their donations have gone. If you're also concerned, contact the attorney general.

Consumer Complaints

Click here for information on what to do if you have a complaint against a business or individual who sold you a product or service.     Consumer Complaint